rathernotsay:
"When I said that I would come along I made it explicitly clear that I am not going to start studying or believing."
But she'll try anyways and that could be a source of friction. You put your foot in the door and she'll want to drage you in no matter what you say.
"She just laughed and said she knows that and wont even bother trying to convince me otherwise."
If she really believes that then what's her motivation in asking you to come?
"It really is more about me learning who these people are particularly the elders."
As others on this forum can tell you it is not until you're baptized that you really get to know the Witnesses, elders included.